Q: My 10-year-old never wants to do her homework. I have to force her to sit down and do it. If I don’t she wont start it until very late at night or won’t do it at all. Can you help make this situation better?
A: One of the most important jobs a parent has is providing structure for their child. Kids respond to structure, object as they may. Implementing a routine during the school week in which there is a set time for school work, dinner, free time and bedtime will give your daughter a greater sense of security. Make the schedule together. She should have some input on when study time occurs, but once that time is set, stick to it. Setting time limits on each activity is also important. Sometimes using a timer is helpful. Try letting her set it for 30 minutes to complete her math homework. When it rings, she can take a 15 minute break to have a snack or make a quick phone call. Use your daughter’s study time to pay bills, pick up the house or read a book. Set the example, she will follow your lead.
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